Author name: TBWM

Is This Midlife Crisis She Asks!

I must admit that previously I was caught up with the status quo and what it dictated. Unfortunately I have had to put on a mask many times because the authentic me feels I would not be accepted otherwise. I also felt it too laborious an effort to be me. …for the person that can identify I say put away the mask, any situation that forces you to be far removed from your true reality is not worth it. Read more,click below…

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Choose You No Matter What

Understand that being you is not always easy, it can be laboring especially when you have had to be someone else continuously. But the laboring is well worth it! You get into a space where you are most comfortable and can share the best version of you. Choose YOU no matter who YOU may be. Choosing to be you may make others uncomfortable but it should serve those you are meant to and that can be the best thing you can do for yourself and others. Being you gives others permission to also be themselves!!! Always remember that.

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Curvy & Confident

The discussion would never end if I were to try to address some of the very shameful and unkind stereotypes that have been fuelled by societal norms for decades. I will however share one experience I had years ago.

On a day like many, I was doing my do and walking my walk, in my delicately perfumed, tailored Le Suit, with my well-manicured hands and shoulder-length, healthy and bouncy hair, when I was stopped mid-stride by an older lady of petite proportions and very light complexion, who in all her intellect and wisdom attempted her good deed for the day by complimenting me on all of the above with special attention to how confidently I stood. Then, as if on second thought, she remarked “You look really nice Miss D, but how you full of it so today? If you stepping so proudly now, imagine if you were a little slimmer? We couldn’t talk to you.” To which I smiled politely and responded “And what makes you think you can speak to me today or any other day for that matter?” And with that I tossed my hair and continued walking.
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