We have to facilitate the change in our lives that we need to feel, we have to value ourselves first, we have to know what will make us happy and encourage that. We have to change the perception of ourselves so that we can become the woman who God created to walk beside our men.

The only way to usher in that change is when we look closely within acknowledging our own faults and then taking corrective actions which has to be filled with courage, determination, discipline, focus and so much more and then change will happen.

Most people will say that it is hard to change the man, in our case the woman, but I will beg to differ. While it may be hard, it is not impossible if we acknowledge that we cannot change in and of ourselves; but when we take the steps and align ourselves to our Father change will happen. I guarantee you.

Will it be immediate? Absolutely not, but if each time we err we acknowledge, forgive ourselves and try again – overtime I assure you we get to a point where we think twice before making a decision to  respond or re-act in a particular way. Then we will see change, we will feel change and we will be change.
We will become the change that is necessary to guide this world into becoming what it should be, simply because we will start with ourselves and see ourselves as valued and created to be so much more than we are now!

I know this is not for every woman, but, the woman it is for – understands. Change your perception of you and begin to make way for the power that you possess within to effect changes in you and the people you will impact!